Question: Why does the Shaagos
Aryeh hold that saying Shema in the morning and night are two separate mitzvos
but honoring your father and mother is one mitzvah but two parts to it?
The Maharatz Chiyos (Sanhedrin 56b) proves that honoring your parents is one
mitzvah with two parts because there are only Ten Commandments not 11.
B. What is “michayev,” meaning what creates the obligation of each mitzvah?
A1. By honoring one’s parents the obligation is because you are their child so the source of obligation is that you by yourself have to honor your mother and father. This is why it is one mitzvah with two parts to it. But what obligates one to say Shema is the time of day and night so it is two separate mitzvos.
mitzvah #10 כבד את אביך ואת אמיך One also transgresses
the positive mitzvah of honoring their parents if they speak or accept lashon
hara about them whether in there face or behind there back. This extra mitzvah
also applies to an older brother, stepmother and stepfather who you have a
mitzvah to treat with extra respect beard on the extra word ואת in that verse.
Positive Mitzvah #11: את
ד’ אלוקיך תירא One of the six constant mitzvos is to fear Hashem. This means
that we must constantly have in mind that we can’t get around Hashem’s radar.
Hashem is always watching us and will punish us for bad deeds based on the
severity of our actions. Many times when speaking lashon hara it leads to other
sins because when we speak loshon Hara we let down our fear guard and that
drives us to do one sin after another until we put up the fear gaurd again.