From last week’s Torah portion of Korach to this week’s Torah portion of Chukas we skip about 38 years forward, to the end of the Jew’s period of wondering in the desert. The Children of Israel request to go through the land of Edom on their journey. “Moshe sent emissaries from Kadesh to the king of Edom: ‘So said your brother Israel: You know all the hardship that has befallen us… Let us pass through your land; we shall not pass through field or vineyard, and we shall not drink well water; on the king’s road shall we travel – we shall not veer right or left – until we pass through your border.’ The king of Edom said to him, ‘You shall not pass through me – lest I come against you with the sword!’ The Children of Israel said to him, ‘We shall go up on the highway, and if we drink your water – I or my flock – I shall pay their price. Only nothing will happen; let me pass through on foot.’ He said, ‘You shall not pass through!’ Then Edom went out against him with massive throng and a strong hand. So, Edom refused to permit Israel to pass through his border, and Israel turned away from near him” (Bamidbar 20:14-21).
- The lesson the Ralbag learns from this episode is that “it’s befitting for a person to be ‘constantly scared’. Therefore, the Torah tells that when Israel saw he (the king of Edom) didn’t want to let them pass through his border and he went out to meet them with a big multitude and with force, they reared away from there and did not want to fight with him because they were scared lest he would be victorious. And even though the ‘Hand of G-D’ never was cut short with them for good in all their wars, and it was pretty evident that the king of Edom feared from the Jews lest they destroy them if they would have been in their land, nevertheless [the Jews] were commanded to not start a war with them as mentioned in the Torah portion of Devarim.” (Click here for Hebrew text.)
In Devarim it states: “…’You are passing through the boundary of your brother the children of Esav, who dwell in Seir; they will fear you, but you should be very careful. You shall not provoke them, for I shall not give you of their land even the right to set foot, for as an inheritance to the children of Esav have I given Mount Seir…'” (Devarim 2:1-8). Clearly, Hashem warned the Jewish People not to start up with the descendants of Esav. They were allowed to purchase food and water from them as they passed through, as it says in Devarim 2:6, but were not to take advantage of them or start up with them. Now the King of Edom didn’t even allow that.
Granted, Hashem shielded and protected the Jews from all their enemies throughout their time in the desert when they were threatened and attacked. But it is known that there was one time where Hashem didn’t help them, as we saw in the Torah portion of Shelach, after the debacle of the spies, around 38 years before this episode with the land of Edom. Hashem decreed upon them the 40 years of wondering in the desert and that the generation between the ages of 20-60 wouldn’t merit to enter The Land. As the Torah states: “They awoke early in the morning and ascended toward the mountain top saying, ‘We are ready, and we shall ascend to the place of which Hashem has spoken for we have sinned!’ Moshe said, ‘Why do you transgress the word of Hashem? It will not succeed. Do not ascend for Hashem is not in your midst! And do not be smitten before your enemies. For the Amalekites and the Canaanites are there before you, and you will fall by the sword, because you have turned away from Hashem, and Hashem will not be with you.’ But they defiantly ascended to the mountaintop, while the Ark of Hashem’s covenant and Moshe did not move from the midst of the camp. The Amalekites and the Canaanite who dwelled on that mountain descended; they struck them and pounded them until Hormah” (Bamidbar 14:40-45).
The Jews in the desert were on very high levels of trust and faith in Hashem. Blindly following Him in the desert, relying on Him to provide food, drink and fresh clothing every day, making their travels safe by leveling the ground and killing any poisonous creepy crawlers like snake and scorpions on the way. They saw and felt this protection for 38 years. This was besides the open miracles in Egypt, the splitting of the sea which defeated the Egyptians, and the victorious battle over Amalek soon after leaving Egypt. But on the other hand, as the Torah described in parshas Shelach, if Hashem didn’t want them to enter into battle, Hashem wasn’t with them to protect them. With all their knowledge and belief in Hashem, especially physically, being there at the revelation of Har Sinai upon receiving the Torah, wouldn’t they have understood if they were told by Hashem not to attack Edom? Wouldn’t they not have attacked? Wouldn’t they have known to trust in Hashem that Hashem would not help or protect them in those circumstances? Why did the Ralbag have to say that they used their attributes of ‘always being scared’ to ensure that they would not go to war while relying on Hashem to defend them and bring them to victory? Particularly in this circumstance where Hashem said they should not go; then they should just have the emuna and bitachon that this is G-D’s will and nothing else is needed to make the right decision?
It must be that without the attribute of a “person should always be scared” then it is very easy to get carried away and go overboard with the attribute of bitachon, the trust in Hashem that He will always defend and protect you, and will provide miracles if need be, under whatever circumstance and in any decision one makes. Just have bitachon and it will all work out! However, the Ralbag is teaching us that there must be checks and balances, because sometimes the proper trust in Hashem is not to move forward and attack, if it is against Hashem’s will. But it’s hard to come up with that resolve using one’s own belief and trust system; therefore, having this constant fear, ‘am I doing the right thing,’ ‘is this what I am supposed to be doing at this given moment,’ will counteract negative, or ‘overboard’ bitachon. This will ensure that one is serving Hashem properly, according to His will. That, in fact, is the proper bitachon, trust and faith in Hashem!
Good Shabbos,Rabbi Dovid Shmuel Milder