- Question: Why can a judge help a litigant who is trying to say
something but is having problems articulating but if he says he is owed a
lesser amount then what he really is the judge cannot correct that?
(A) The Shulchan Aruch (Choshen Mishpat siman
17) says in si’if 9: “If a judge sees a winning argument for one of the
litigants and the litigant is trying to say it but does not know how to
properly put his words together or they see he is having a hard time trying to
save himself with truthful claims and because of anger and frustration he is
forgetting things or mixing things up out of foolishness, then a judge can help
him and prepare the beginning of his statements because of the concept of
‘opening the mouth for the mute’. But he has to be very careful not to act like
In si’if 12 The Rema says that if a claimant has a claim on his friend over a
smaller amount of money and the judge sees that he is actually owed more money
technically than what he is asking for, the judge can’t poskin that he should
get more than what he is asking for and if he does it is a mistake in judgment
and the extra money must be given back.
(C) The Shach (15) says we are not dealing with a case where he explicitly forgoes part of what he is owed, neither does it make sense that we know for sure that he is unaware of his mistaken claim.
Answer: In the latter case we don’t know whether he purposely is asking for less or not so the judge can’t say anything. But in the first case it is obvious that he was trying to say something it was just not coming out correctly so the judge is allowed to help him.
- Question: Why is it forbidden to take a sefer and put it underneath
the Sefer you are learning from to prop it up in order to learn better but if
the Sefer is already on the table you can put your Sefer on it so you can see
(A) The Taz (Yoreh Deah 243:19:13) says it is a greater disgrace of a Sefer to take it and use it as a shtender to prop up the Sefer you are learning from then to hold it on your lap even while learning, as it says in the Rema si’if 7, but if the bottom Sefer was already on the table it is definitely permissible to place the second Sefer on top of it.
Answer: By actively taking the Sefer to use it as a shtender that is blatantly showing disrespect whereas just putting the Sefer down on one that is already on the table isn’t a show of disrespect and therefore is definitely permitted.
2. Question: What is the
difference between nullifying chometz on the eve of Pesach and resting your
animal on Shabbos in terms of being in different time zones of your property? By
chometz the Oneg Yom Tov says it goes by which ever time zone it is in and by
Shabbos there seems to be an argument whether it goes by the animal’s time zone
or the owner’s time zone, so what would be the reason why they are different if
we go by the owner’s time zone on Shabbos?
(A) The Oneg Yom Tov said that if you are in one time zone and your chometz is in a different time zone, for example 3 hours ahead then the chometz is automatically forbidden once the time where the chometz is, comes because since the chometz is in its place after the time of being forbidden it is forbidden to get any benefit from it and we don’t care about the time zone it’s owners are in. (B) On Shabbos a person has to rest including his animals as it says in the Ten Commandments of Va’eschanan: “you shall not do any work- you, your son, your daughter, your slave, your maid servant, your ox, your donkey, and your every animal, and your convert within your gates in order that…may rest like you.”
Answer: . The mitzva of resting on Shabbos is on the person or owner of the animal so wherever he is when his animal will have to start to rest. Whereas the ownerless state of chometz comes into play by the Torah wherever it is at the time the forbidden hour starts so if it is in a different time zone than where its owner is, it still loses its ownership.
- Question: If a pile of sefarim fall on the floor why should you
first pick all of them up and then kiss all of them instead of kissing each one
as you pick each one up?
The Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh Deah 282:1) says that a person has to treat a Sefer
Torah with the utmost respect.
In si’if 5 he says one should not throw holy writings even Halacha and agadita
(C) The Rema adds that it is forbidden for a Sefer to be upside down and if found upside down it should be turned over. The Beis Lechem Yehuda adds that the Mahari”l would kiss the Sefer when he turn it right side up.
Answer: The other sefarim left on the floor is left in a state of disgrace while you kiss the one you picked up.
Question: Why isn’t it a problem to put tzitzis onto a garment which has shaatnez and then take out the shaatnez?
A. The problem is that
there is a rule that one can only put tzitzis on a garment which already
requires tzitzis. For example if a garment has rounded corners which are not
obligated in tzitzis and he tied tzitzis on each round corner and then cut the
corner so it would be square which now makes the garment obligated in tzitzis,
he must now untie the tzitzis and retie them to be allowed to wear the garment.
B. The main problem is
that you can’t perform a mitzvah through doing a sin.
C. The prohibition of meat and milk has to do with a mixture this is the same prohibition of shaatnez, a mixture of wool and linen.
Answer: The issue of shaatnez and tzitzis do not cross paths for the prohibition of shaatnez is in the mixture whereas the mitzvah of tzitzis could be performed within the measurement of wool by itself, assuming most of the garment is wool and there are just a few strands of linen mixed in.
- Question: How would a rabbi
teach a litigant to lie if before the court case he heard his side and not the
other side and then wrote down his thoughts on the case although not writing a
final decision (see Shulchan Aruch Choshen Mishpat 17:5 in the Rema)?
A. The Vilna Gaon (note
11) says this ruling is based on a Mishna in Pirkay Avos (1:9) “Shimon ben
Shetach says: Interrogate the witnesses extensively; and be cautious with your
words, lest they learn to lie.
B. The Artscroll footnote in the siddur on
this Mishna says: “Speak carefully to witnesses and litigants, lest the
direction of your interrogation gives them a hint on how to fabricate their
testimony to tell you what they think you are looking for.
C. The Rema say the same issue would be if the sage would tell the litigant after he explains his side of the case, “if so then this is how it should turn out…”
Answer: Because now this litigant can use what he heard from the rabbi or what the sage wrote up to strengthen his defense whether it is right or wrong since the rabbi only heard one side of the argument.