Prohibitions 10-13

Negative mitzvah #10 = “לא יקום עד אחד באיש לכל עון ולכל חטאת” This is a prohibition against testifying by yourself. Normally a court only accepts two or more witnesses as testimony. There are special circumstances like prompting a defendant to take an oath where a single witness is accepted. However if there is no use for the single witness it is forbidden for him to testify in court and is considered Loshon Hara.

Negative mitzvah #11 = “לא תהיה אחרי רבים לרעות” You can hang around a bad crown, like a group that speaks loshon hara. The Be’er Mayim Chaim points out that not only is there a Torah mitzvah against hanging around bad crowds but in the rest of Tanach there is many instances where it mentions the same thing so it is also Rabinnically forbidden, for example the first verse in Tehillim, “The praises of a man are that he did not follow the counsel of the wicked, neither did he stand in the way of sinners nor sit in the company of scorners.”

Negative mitzvah #12 = .”לא יהיה כקרח וכעדתו” There is a specific prohibition to not act like Korach and his followers. Speaking or even accepting loshon hara can lead to intense fighting. If the person listening would have made a displeasurable face, showing he does not want to listen to this type of talk, there is a good chance an argument could have died down.

Negative mitzvah #13 = “לא תונו איש את עמיתו” This a prohibition against speaking אונאת דברים, speech that makes people feel bad, in front of them bythemselves is a problem, all the more so if there is a group listening. Examples are talking about what a baal teshuva use to do before he or she became Torah observant, disabilities in intellect, physically, emotionally, etc., or even talking about family members in a negative way. If there is no helpful purpose it is forbidden to bring up even in private, all the more so in public.

Prohibitions 7-9

Today we covered Negative Mitzvos 7-9 in the prologue. 

Negative mitzvah 7: ״לא תשנא את אחיך בלבביך״ “Do not hate your brother in your heart.” If a person is nice to someone to his face but speaks loshon hara about him to others, The Chofetz Chaim says this sin is so severe and is even specified in the Torah because it is worse than regular hatred since the one being hated cannot defend himself. If one lashes out, out of hatred against someone he can physically or verbally defend himself but if the enemy is speaking peace to your face and hurts you behind your back what can you do? This sin only applies to the one speaking loshon hara and only as long it is behind the back of the guy he is speaking about.

The 8th and 9th negative mitzvos are ״לא תקום ולא תטור״ “Don’t take revenge or bear a grudge.” If someone did something bad to you and you remember it and then speak loshon hara about him so that other people won’t act kindly towards him, this is bearing a grudge and taking revenge. One should just forget about anything bad one does to you. The Sefer HaChinuch and Rambam both hold that not taking revenge or bearing a grudge applies whether someone did something against you monetarily, physically, or verbally. The Sefer HaChinuch’s advice to forgive and forget is that really everything is from Hashem and this person is just a messenger to cause harm to you in order to atone for a sin you have done so you can’t take revenge or bear a grudge against him since he really did nothing wrong it is your sin which brought the harm upon you. However the Chofetz Chaim adds that at the time of being harmed one is allowed to defend himself however it is a positive trait to overlook any bad one says about you or even does to you, unless physically defending your self from getting harmed. Otherwise after the fact it is forbidden to care about what happened because that will be bearing a grudge which could lead also to revenge.  These sins could apply to both the speaker and listener of lashon hara, for if the listener adds his input or agrees fully what the speaker says because he was wronged by the same guy then he is transgressing taking bearing a grudge and or taking revenge.

Prohibition 6

“לא תחללו את שם קדשי,”  the Torah says do not profane my Holy name. This is the prohibition of creating a Chilul Hashem. The Chofetz Chaim goes on to explain that lashon hara is a chillul Hashem because it is done out of spite, not because you are over come by any physical desires. 

What he means is that Hashem, when creating us, purposefully gave us physical needs that must be handled like eating, sleeping, cohabitating, etc. Hashem expects us to c ontrol these physical needs and use them for the sake of serving Him. However it is possible that if we are lax, those physical needs could start to control the person and he or she might start doing things unhealthy or even sinful, however that is not called a chillul Hashem as long as it does not become too habitual because Hashem gave us these physical desires and it is understood that it is an on going process to create a healthy balance. That doesn’t mean it is wrong if misused, it is just not spiting Hashem. 

But if one slanders another human being or swears falsely even for the sake of making money, or even if this negative speech is said for the sake of defending one’s own honor that is still a chillul Hashem because no physical desire that Hashem gave him got the better of the person to cause him to sin, and even if it was for the sake of profit or honor, one has to always be attuned that Hashem honor comes first and if he doesn’t that by definition is a “slap in the face” to Hasham, lihavdil, and that is why it is a chilul Hashem. 

We also saw that it is common place that lashon hara has a death spiraling effect, that once one starts slandering, even someone rebukes him for doing so, he’ll find excuses of why it is not slander in this case and will continue to slander the other person even worse which is the opposite effect of a typical sin. If a normal Jew ate a piece of pig unknowingly and then was told that it was pig he would not just take another bite, he would throw it out, rinse his mouth out and stay far away, but by lashon hara there seems to be the opposite effect and that is also why it is such a terrible chillul Hashem.

Prohibitions 4-5

#4 לפני עור לא תתןמכשול: The prohibition of placing a stumbling block in front of the blind applies to both the speaker and listener for the speaker would not have said anything if no one was there and the listener would not have accepted the loshon hara if the speaker would not have made it sound juicy. 

#5 השמר לך פן תשכך את ד׳ אלוקיך: Is a prohibition on the speaker against acting in a haughty manner for he would not have said something bad about someone if he didn’t think he was greater than him especially if he now looks better in the eyes of the listeners. 

Prohibitions 1-3

1. לא תלך רכיל בעמיך (Vayikra 19:16): This negative mitzvah applies to both rechilus which is essentially tattle telling and lashon hara which is speaking bad about others even if it is the truth. This sin only applies to the one speaking. 

2. לא תשא שמע שוא (Shemos 23:1): According to most opinions applies to the one listening and accepting loshon hara or rechilus. It is based on the case of a judge not allowed to accept testimony before a court case officially begins even if it is exactly what he is going to be hearing in the court case. 

3. נשמר מאד מנגע הצרעת (Devarim 24:8): There is a prohibition on getting yourself to have tzaraas, a spiritual ailment in the times of the beis hamikdash and before, which one of its causes is lashon hara.